Victims of Christopher F. Winkeljohn
After performing a Google search for Chris Winkeljohn and reading the "Public Service Announcement" printed by one of, what I assume to be another victim of Chris Winkeljohn, I felt it was time to get as much information about this incredibly sick man out there for others to read. I never could have believed that he would do this AGAIN. Now that I know he has, I could never forgive myself if I didn't try to inform other women so that they too do not get caught in this man's web of lies and destruction.
The intention of this blog is not to inflict any more pain and suffering upon Chris's wife, Lilly, and their daughter, but to try to inform others so that this cycle is stopped. I do hope, however, that Chris's friends and family read this blog and stop enabling him. They know what he is doing, yet they do not try to stop him.
The intention of this blog is not to inflict any more pain and suffering upon Chris's wife, Lilly, and their daughter, but to try to inform others so that this cycle is stopped. I do hope, however, that Chris's friends and family read this blog and stop enabling him. They know what he is doing, yet they do not try to stop him.
posted by CFW Victims at 6:58 AM
29 Comments:
So what can you tell me about this man's conquests. He informed me that all these dramatic relationships took place several years ago. Now I see this posting just a few days ago.
What is it with this guy. He seemed to have all the time in the world to take me out between October and January. That is until I forwarded him an email that was sent to me entitled "Public Service Announcement"
Can you elaborate on your story?
We met last fall through work friends and started hanging out under the premise that we were both soon to be divorced and it was nice to chat with someone in the same boat. He soon got more affectionate. Being much younger I always thought he was a little old (and gray), but the attention was nice... lots of dinners, etc. He stopped contacting me cold after I forwarded him the email that was sent to me. That was weird since he made sure we talked everyday prior to. I knew about his wife and daughter but he told me that she was going to take the daughter to Kansas this spring after they got divorced.
I'm over the situation, but still need some closure I guess. Could you tell me more about these other's siutations? What about yours?
Anonymous, I am in a position to help and need some more information to confront CFW. I am specifically concerned about the welfare of his wife and daughter.
Can you please give me more information? Is the Oct-Jan current (2005)? Is there details you could give that don't have to identify your name but would make it undeniable when I confront him? (ie: where you met, the places you went to dinner etc.)?
I am concerned about his wife and daughters safety and this would be a big help. Thank you.
Concerned
To answer your question, yes it was October 2005 through January 2006. What are you confronting him about? I'm not sure how involved this all is, but what is confronting him going to do? I'd like more information about other's experienced before getting too much further involved. Please advise.
He works at CTI in Brighton; another environmental consulting firm. Does anyone know if he's currently involved with ex-marital women?
sorry... extra marital women. He last indicated to someone I know that he's now fully committed to his wife.
I am a longtime friend of Lilly. I can't locate the public service announcement you referenced. Can someone post it here?
Does anyone know if this is the same Chris Winkeljohn originally from Kansas City,MO?
So how was he "confronted"? Is this new person someone from his work at CTI (his new firm)? And yes, this is the same Chris Winkeljohn from Kansas.
WOW, I can't imagine the talk at the next class reunion. Who knew back then that he'd turn out to be such a con man. Can't wait to read more....
Chris was confronted by his wife's family, who were unaware of his double life. They are now aware of his lies and deciet. Hopefully they can keep him away from Lilly. He is a master a making those around him believe his lies and his "apologies". All of us, his victims, know this all too well.
I saw Chris in Kansas city a short while ago. Is he moving back here? Is Lily coming with him?
I heard that Lilly is divorcing Chris and has moved back to MO with her daughter. Not sure what Chris's status is. Hopefully Lilly will be able to keep their daughter as far away from that man as possible. Wonder what Chris would do if a man ever did to Kelsey, what he has done to so many.
So what is going on with this guy now? I heard he's "working" in alot of states. I wonder how many women he's fooling around the country.
Now that it is the holiday season I can't help but to think about all of the lies Chris tends to tell at this time of year. His most famous is a family "emergency" right before you are to go home with him to meet his family. Another reoccuring lie is an emergency at work that he must take care of. It amazes me to recall all of the lies he told - and how he kept them all straight. I wonder who he is lying to this holiday season. Glad it's not me anymore!
For those who need to know Chris and Lilian are not divorced. Their family are spending all their holidays together. Prayers, forgiveness and repentence are powerful. So is truth. May God forgive you --those who rejoice in gossip and speculation.
"May God forgive you --those who rejoice in gossip and speculation." Who the hell does this person think he/she is. This man ruined lives carelessly. I think the people he hurt deserve to vent their frustrations freely. I'd like to know what this person would say if he impacted their lives this way.
Anyone looking for more information about Chris and his family there is a wealth of information in Celina and St. Mary's, OH. This is where his mother's family is from. If you do a little digging the info on this incredibly sick, enabling family is there. Some of Chris's relatives don't believe that he could ever do the "things" alleged in this blog! Un-freakin-believable.
It will be interesting once Chris opens his new office in KC and moves how many victims he will pull into his evil web.
Is this blog still active? I had a recent potential near miss with CFW, I was shocked to find a blog with such history but very grateful to have come across this information.
This blog is VERY active. MANY women have had "near misses" with CFW - that's why we felt it was important to publish a blog about this very sick and destructive con man.
Dear Anonymous, Can you tell me about your recent near miss? Please. It's important.
Anonymous also
I'm sorry, I do not want to elaborate on my recent near miss with CFW, but thank you for maintaining this blog. After reading what everyone said about him, I probably wasn't in a physical risk situation, but it helped me wake up and realize to be more careful and to not be immediately trusting, even in professional situations. Thanks again!
That was the intent of this blog is to warn others about this man. He appears to be very trustworthy and sincere - which we have all learned, some the hard way, that he is definitely nothing more than a con man.
It is now July 2008 and I recently had an encounter with CFW. I googled his name and found this blog. Sounds like some of this stuff happened awhile ago (2005 and 2006). It he still married? What happened to his ex and daughter? Rumor has it that he's still with his wife but seeing other women. Seems like people like him never change.
Dear Anonymous: Yes, even in 2008 Chris is still lying and cheating - he will NEVER change. He has been lying and cheating far too long. The more people who know how dangerous he is the better. However, Lilly, his wife can't be too smart since she knows all of this and continues to stay with him. What kind of woman continues to put up with a man who habitually cheats on her?!? Not a very bright chick as far as I can tell.
October 2009 - Is there any recent activity anyone has on this guy. Could he be going by another name...maybe his middle one. Shame on all of you for judging Lilly or having any kind of a negative opinion about her choice to stay with her husband. I'm very sorry for Lilly to have married him but it's her life and no one can live it but her. Leave her out of the discussions. There is plenty to write about Chris.
wow. I'm interested if any of the following were true (from the '99 time frame)...
- testicular cancer survivor?
- "ex"-wife attempted suicide?
- "ex"-wife's mother died in 99?
- car accident resulting in the tragic death of a baby?
I hope he has recieved some professional help since then.
all were stories fabricated to provide excuses for his double/triple? life. So sad!
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